5 Best Crystals for Sizzling Sex

Satisfying sex is imperative for most folks to even begin to feel as though their needs are being met. But, life can make this difficult to achieve for a variety of reasons. Time constraints, relationship issues, and outdated narratives are but a few of the major blocks to manifesting the rich carnal pleasure that you crave.
This list is intended to help you choose crystals for support as you work to level up your sexual experiences. Ultimately, no crystal can overcome an unwillingness to work on your issues, and it doesn’t matter if that issue is physical, psychological, energetic, or relationship-oriented. But, if you are ready to show up and do the work to turn up the heat on your sex life, these crystals are invaluable allies.

Overcoming Toxic Narratives

There are so many terrible narratives surrounding sex. Sexual shame is absolutely crippling. Fear of your own desires, passions, and proclivities can lock you outside of your most powerful self. Denial of your needs can also trap you into a performative role that feels horrible and robs you of pleasure and richness.

The good news is that you can choose to rewrite the stories that direct your personal identity narratives, at any time. It is a process that takes self-reflection, observational awareness, and ultimately accepting responsibility for your own reality.

Crystals can really help you take control of your stories and lead your most empowered life by helping you to consider the perspectives of others, let go of outmoded scripts about your identity, and helping you to have greater control of your emotions and impulsivity.

My list of the best crystals for sizzling sex includes 2 of the best allies for repairing your narratives: smokey quartz and shiva lingam.

Smokey Quartz is usually brownish and Shiva Lingham is also brown and cream

Sacral Chakra Stones

The Hindu faith teaches us about our bodies’ energetic system. According to the Vedas, there are seven chakras or energy vortexes in the human body. These vortexes maintain your energy flow. When they are cleared and working properly, your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health is optimized. However, they can be blocked by fear, shame, guilt, grief, lies, illusions, and attachments.

When your chakras become blocked, your energy flow is disrupted and that can manifest in a whole host of maladies. It could be a physical issue like sickness, weakness, pain, or lack. Or the effect of your energy imbalance could show up in the thoughts you think or the emotions you experience. Out of whack energy can even shut you out of your own spirituality and leave you in an existential crisis.

The energy vortex located about two inches below the belly button is called the sacral chakra. The sacral chakra, when functioning properly, directs energy towards the expression of creativity, sexual power, and sexual confidence. When the sacral chakra becomes blocked, you may not be able to create art of any kind, produce high-quality work, or connect well with spatial reasoning. You may experience reduced libido, sexual dysfunction, or hypersexuality. Blockages here can even lead to kidney issues or reproductive issues.

My list of crystals perfect for sizzling sex includes 3 sacral chakra stones: carnelian, tiger’s eye, and spessartine garnet.

5 Incredible Minerals for Satisfying Sexual Experiences

Deep connections, satisfaction, and a generalized improvement to your state of being are the rewards of creating incredible sexual experiences in your life. Culturally, we have a number of very unhealthy scripts about sexuality and that can make it very difficult to even speak honestly with your partner about your desires, let alone have the confidence to get creative.

In no particular order, here are five incredible mineral allies for public speakers:

Rose Quartz is translucent pink

Smokey Quartz

Smokey Quartz grounds you in such a way that projections and shadows become obvious to you, both your own and those of your partner or others who have influence over you.


Carnelian clears and stimulates the sacral chakra, unleashing creativity and sexual power. It is said to boost libido and the urge to be physically connected.

Carnelian is often a vibrant red orange
Green Calcite is translucent and cool to the touch

Spessartine Garnet

Spessartine Garnet enhances charisma and personal magnetism. Like all forms of garnet, it is a conduit for manifestation energy. This form of garnet connects and harmonizes the root, sacral, and solar plexus chakras and ushers in the most powerful versions of its allies.

Tiger’s Eye

Tiger’s Eye helps you to free yourself from anxiety and fear so that you can take action. It helps to reduce the emotional impact of difficult conversations so that a solution-oriented discussion is possible.

Bloodstone is green with red spots and patches

Shiva Lingam

Shiva Lingam reveals polarized thinking and helps to integrate the opposing viewpoint into a more balanced perspective. It also helps you to tap into both masculine and feminine divine energy.

Do You Use Crystal Allies To Level Up Your Sex Life?

If so, I would love to hear your perspective on stones that have aided you in creating rich, intense, and rewarding experiences. Please, feel free to share your impressions in the comments.


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